“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you built up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like “maybe we should just be friends” turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and0rips-you-apart-pain. I hate love.”I'm going to be MIA for a bit. I think you can guess why.
37 comments:
Oh, sweetie....I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself. Get yourself some killer shoes (like with four inch heels you could plunge into someone's neck with). Lots of healing to you, Cheryl xx
Oh honey...I don't even know what to say in a comment so I will email you but just know that you're wonderful and if I batted for the other team I would marry you in an instant. Take care of yourself and your heart. XO
Oh no, I am so, so sorry. I hope you take a lot of time for yourself. I'll be sending positive thoughts your way. And take as much time as you need, we'll all be here when you get back.
blah - I hope you are feeling better soon - just remember you are awesome and you deserve the best - and anyone who doesn't realize it is stupid and you are better off without...blah - I hope you can find something to smile about soon!
i hope you are ok. please let me know if there is anything i can do to help. shit. i hope you are ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that totally sucks! i agree with cheryl about the heels.
anytime you need a friend, i'm here. x
Oh I can guess, and Im sooooo sorry. Take as long as you need, in the meantime Im sending you a big hug XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Aw, I'm so sorry. I think we have a lot more in common than just ballet ;)
Take care of yourself, do some fun things, BE FABULOUS. because you are.
Hugs xxxxxx
Oh no! I hope you're okay. We'll be thinking of you!
men. they just plain suck balls don't they? I'm so so sorry my love. Love is just a pain in the ass sometimes. I'm definitely thinking you need to get some killer heels and go plunge them into an eyeball. Or maybe just a ball {a pair of balls to be precise}. Let me know if you need anything
; )
Hating to sound like an overripe granny, but does it help to know that it gets better some day? I'm sorry dear. My entire life, it seems, has been devoted to devotion and the pain that comes along with it. Only after turning 40 has it lessened. It does get better. And it's not about the other people. It's about moi. You, too, luv.
Saraaaaaa.... you're beautiful and wonderful and I'm sorry. I hope you feel better soon.
Ooohh...I'm sorry. Kick his ass, drink Tequila, listen to some man hater chick music, and spew about him to your friends.
It will make you make feel better for a little while.
Oh, MEN... sigh. I'm so sorry, hon. Just remember we're all here if you need anything!
xo
Why does everyone always blame the man?
We will be thinking about you. Come back soon, you outrageous girl you!
Oh dear. I hope you are okay. That quote above is so very true. Love is the hugest risk known to man...it hurts the most in the heart and in your head. I am here for you anytime over the internet. You are a triple trillion dollar catch and you deserve the best on the planet. I am trying to send laser beams with my mind of love,angels and hope your way. xoxox
I am sad! That Polaroid says it all! I'll be thinking of you. Take care of yourself and know that we will miss you, but we understand!
Time heals all. You've got the looks and an A+ sense of humor. Hold your head up.
a great find for panda fanatic!
my roommate and i LOVE this bag
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sending a big round hug... O
(hmmm... ok, so maybe its not that big on screen, but its come all the way from NZ!)
Chin up
x
wow,this was out of the blue.i hate when stuff like this happens,especially to good people.
strongs
xoxo
Take as much time as you need and just know that we're all thinking of you!!!
Sara....you need to remember that you are awesome. Look at all these people in your comment space who love you. It's okay to roll around in the hurt. The pain that fills your heart just expands it so you can have room for bigger love the next time.
Be good to yourself.
I'm sorry, friend. I hope you're doing okay!
well thanks for visiting my blog. you know, I just got dumped too. highschool sweetheart. three and a half years. best friend. first boyfriend. first love. "I love you, but you need time to work on yourself and sort out your issues."
fun! lets be basket cases together....
oh my goodness i'm so down. Let's get the hell out of town! I've totally been there so I know exactly how you feel. I pretty much just wanted to crap on everything he owned or break his face. I will totally help you do that. You let me know the time and place and I'm totally there with a big ass bottle of wine in hand.
loves!
Aw, hon, I'm sorry. If you ended it, then good for you - it sucks now but things better better. And if he ended it, then he's a butt, and forget him.
Ohhh u awesome lil thing... I know it must be tough.
u still in Miami? If so let me know if you swing by south beach.
We can meet up for a quick wine or shopping buzz.
Distractions are key in times of hurt and unease.
Take care.
<3, melody
Hey girl...I'm sorry to hear you're hurting...it sucks. Keep your chin up.
oh no, I'm so very sorry....we are here for you. seriously.
Sigh... thinking about you. Hope your heart heals quickly.
Awwww honey that just sucks! Clearly the man has brain damage, there simply is no other explanation. None. Thats it. Better that you found out now, rather than later.
Just think of all the bad things he ever did, that always worked for me.
xoxo
Maria
tagged you over at mine!!!
Your blog is very nice. The images are very beautiful. Wish you all the best. God is Great.
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Take as long as you need, I hope Keiko and Micah are helping, they have a very responsible owner.
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